Monday, October 20, 2014

{learning} What Homeschooling Looks Like Here: Weeks 7-12


We just finished up Week 12 of our homeschool year, so it's time for another update!  (You can find the post about our first six weeks here.)  This time around, I became really brave about making the curriculum work for us.  During weeks 1-6, I stuck close to the program, letting the prepared lesson plans lead me.  I was thankful for the guidance and it definitely gave me confidence as a teacher.  But for weeks 7-12, I started to assess what was working and what was not.  We ventured away from the plan a bit and I think the boys are really enjoying the changes.

A Few of the School Subjects We Replaced
  • M was unhappy with the curriculum's writing activities, so we worked together to create a "Writing Journal".  He uses it in a variety of ways: some days, I give him a question or list idea.  Other days, he makes up his own theme.  What matters most to me is that he is writing and using his imagination.
  • M also disliked the spelling program and I felt like he wasn't recalling anything.  We now use his weekly words in lots of fun ways.  I try to vary the games and activities every week, so he's using the words in different ways.  He has his final spelling test on Fridays and there has been a HUGE difference in his performance.  
  • The curriculum we use has provided a lot of wonderful read alouds, but we veered off the timeline a bit with a few choices of our own.  So far, we've added in Ginger Pye and Thomas and the Dragon Queen.  I hope to get back to a few of the "official" choices, but I like the ability to be spontaneous if we come across a good book.


Lessons Learned During Weeks 7-12
1. Pinterest is your friend!  
I get so many of our crafts, worksheets and recipes from searches on Pinterest.  I am SO thankful for the hard work and creativity of other bloggers!

2. The Need for Breaks
It is my personality to really dig in and get 'er done.  Unfortunately, that is not the personality of my boys!  Our new routine is to finish a few subjects and then take a break. The boys take that time to play, run around and have a snack.  It's the perfect time for them to get their wiggles out while I get a few chores accomplished.  Then we meet back up to finish out the day.

3. Be flexible.
With a new baby in the house, this has been an essential lesson to learn.  Sometimes school will start a little later in the day.  Sometimes we only complete half of our subjects before calling it quits.  It's all okay and part of the season we are in.         


The Boys' Homeschool Favorites from the First Third of the School Year

Favorite Subject
M: history  //  D: "my favorite book!" (translation: Developing the Early Learner: Level 2)
Favorite Project or Activity
M: mummifying the action figure and making papyrus  //  D: tiger mask
Favorite Read Aloud
M: Ginger Pye  //  D: Ginger Pye
What is one thing you'd like to do more of in the next few weeks?
M: use clay to "make wonderful creations"  //  D: more crafts!

Friday, October 17, 2014

{around here} Week of 10.13.14


In my gut, I knew it would come.  For three weeks, I've felt great, empowered even.  I may have gone so far as to declare to my husband that being a mamma to five was a piece of cake!  But deep down, I knew the high couldn't last forever.  And it didn't.  This week was hard.  

It was a rollercoaster of emotions.  Some days, when the laundry was washed and folded, dinner was homemade and the schooling completed, I felt on top of the world.  I loved this homemaking gig!  But the other days...the days where the boys seemed to always be fighting, the house was a disaster, Sophie spilled smoothie all over the couch and the baby wouldn't let me put him down for more than two minutes...those days had me incredibly overwhelmed and I just wanted to climb into bed and hide under the covers.  

But time goes on.  Life is all about changing seasons and this is one of those times.  The addition of a new life is a change for everyone, a good change.  In the overwhelming moments, I panic and desperately seek what little pieces I can control, but what's the lesson here?  The reality is, I'm so not in control.  So I'm trying again, clinging white knuckled to Him and praying for the grace needed to do this vocation well.  Here's to a better week.

A few good things to mention:
+ We celebrated D's 6th birthday!  He went out to breakfast first thing with his Daddy and chose a McGriddle from McDonald's.  (Side note: on their special day, we let the kids pick anywhere they want to eat.  Their choices crack us up.)  His favorite gifts were this Ultra Agent Lego set and the Uncle Wiggily Game.  For dessert, he chose a cheesecake sampler.  He declared it was "the best day ever" and that made me so happy.  He's growing into a pretty great kid.
+ I've been walking everyday and it's been so good for my mental health.  I've also been hitting my weekly goal of 8,000+ daily steps.  I'm hoping to add some light exercises soon.
+ Pajamas have started arriving for the BWF Pajama Drive!

Hope you have a wonderful, relaxing weekend.

Friday, October 10, 2014

{around here} Week of 10.6.14


Wow.  Another week has flown by!  Here's a peek at what we did:

HOMESCHOOLING.  It's been a light week in homeschooling as we finished up the last bits of Week 11.  I enjoyed splitting up the work into two weeks...it's been a gentle way to get back into the routine with a new baby now in the mix.  A couple of notes:
  • I've decided to make Fridays all about history.  M will have his weekly spelling test and a math page, but the rest of the day will be diving into ancient civilizations.  It will allow us much more time to incorporate activities, crafts and cooking - all things that M really enjoys.  He was so excited about the idea that we ended up having History Day on Monday!  We learned all about mummies, mummified an old action figure using this example, and even had mummy pigs in a blanket for lunch (inspired by this idea).    
  • M's science book, Usborne World of Animals, has been a hit for all of the kids.  We have learned so much!  We just started our study of Asian animals and the boys really enjoyed this video about Japanese snow monkeys.  
EXERCISE.  Week two of my walking routine was successful; I got in at least a mile everyday this week!  I'm still working toward a daily goal of 10,000 steps, but getting closer.  (I use a Fitbit One to track my steps and I love it!)  Currently 13 pounds down with about 22 to go.

BAKING.  I made chocolate chip cookies and two loaves of banana bread, but neither stuck around for long in this household of mine!  Next up is a pumpkin crumb cake.

ON THE BLOG.  
I also spent some time going through four years of archives and updating the broken Pinterest links and photos.  So time consuming, but it was fun to look back and read some of my earliest posts.       

ON THE NIGHTSTAND.  I finished Wild Things: The Art of Nurturing Boys and it's given me so much to think about.  My copy is full of underlining and asterisks!  Just one of the many passages that spoke to me: "The more we can let a boy struggle and learn how to struggle well, the better off he will be later in life.  It is only through suffering that we grow spiritually and emotionally.  Boys need far more help in developing their emotional skills than they do their motor skills.  The more we focus on developing their character, the more they will become men of character."

Plans for the weekend: soccer games, celebrating my big 30th birthday, and a trip to the apple orchard.  I can't wait!  Have a wonderful weekend, friends.

Monday, October 6, 2014

{giving} The 2nd Annual BWF Pajama Drive & I Need Your Help!


Last October, I held the first ever Big White Farmhouse Pajama Drive for children in need.  October is considered to be the beginning of "Danger Season", when temperatures begin to drop around the country and many children don't have pajamas to keep them warm on chilly nights.  My kids get so excited about new, cozy pajamas and it breaks my heart to think that some little ones just don't have that luxury.

So in my small way, I set out to help.  

Friends, family and even a few blog readers all came together to send pajama donations from across the country.  In just two weeks' time, we were able to collect 14 pairs of pajamas!  The donations were given to a wonderful local organization called Northern Virginia Family Services and it makes my heart swell to think that we helped 14 little ones keep warm during last year's crazy winter.

So here we are again.  October is here and the weather is getting a bit colder everyday.  

It's time for the second annual Big White Farmhouse Pajama Drive and I'd love your help!  

My big 30th birthday is coming up this weekend and I would love to collect 30 pajama donations for NVFS, doubling the amount from last year!  Will you help me?  

Here are the details:
+ The pajama drive will be open for the next month, until Friday, November 7, 2014.
+ All pajamas need to be new and should be the complete set (top and bottoms) or a nightgown.
+ The age range we're collecting for is newborn up to 5T.
+ Please send your donations to me. Shoot me an e-mail (mrsb04jc at gmail dot com) with "Pajama Drive" in the subject line and I can send you the address.  
+ Don't have time to shop?  Purchase a few PJs online and have them shipped directly to me!
+ Involve your entire family.  This is an easy opportunity to include your children in service!  

I hope you'll help me spread some happiness to children in need in my community!  If you feel inclined, I'd love it if you would spread the word.  Together, we can work to do great things!  I look forward to hearing from you!


"Little things are indeed little, 
but to be faithful in little things is a great thing."
- Mother Teresa

Friday, October 3, 2014

{around here} Week of 9.29.14


With Mark back at work, I was a mamma flying solo with five kids this week.  It was a bumpy ride, but we survived!  We ended up easing back into homeschooling because we needed the structure.  I like to consider ourselves pretty flexible, but the boys really struggled with all the free time and oh man, the bickering.  Getting school accomplished was a way better alternative!    

A few homeschool notes from week 11:
  • It was S week.  We made snakes.
  • I'm not convinced that the phonics curriculum we're using is working for D. I need to do a little more research, but I'm considering switching to either Teach Your Child to Read in 100 Easy Lessons or Phonics Pathways.  Anyone have a preference or recommendation?
  • M's favorite spelling game of the week: Scrabble Addition.  Math and spelling practice in one!
  • We are almost halfway through Thomas and the Dragon Queen and I am so impressed with the life lessons sprinkled throughout.  I have really enjoyed the conversations it has created about courage, adversity and trying our best.  
On the small business front: I put in an order for a few new items to have in our holiday section of Big White Farmhouse and I can't wait to receive them in a few weeks!  I'm sure I'll do a post or two with some shameless promotion as the holidays get closer.
  
One of my October goals is to get back into an exercise routine by walking again.  Not only will it help me lose the 35 pounds I gained this pregnancy, I also believe exercise is really great for my mental health and helps with the "baby blues" too.  I started off strong this week, walking Monday, Wednesday and Thursday.  I hope to get at least a mile in today, so I'll have a weekly grand total of 4.75 miles.  Feels good.     

Last but not least, a little update on my favorite two-week-old: TJ has been sleeping 3-4 hour stretches at night, which is amazing.  Who knows if it will last, but I'll take it while I can!  He also had his first bath and actually liked it.  Sophie hated baths for almost an entire year and screamed every time, so this is a very welcome change!  He is just a doll baby and every one of us is so smitten with him.  We are so blessed.

Have a great weekend, friends!
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